I'm the poster child for being able to find love after divorce. By the time of my third divorce, I was in my mid 60's and just looking for a friend with benefits on line. I almost deleted the guy from Texas (I live in NC) but he was so appealing...We've been married for nearly 3 years and are very happy. I'm 71; he's 72. It takes some real searching, but just about the time you're ready to give up, don't.