I never mention names, and few people from my family read any of my stories. The story about getting a sister for Christmas may have frightened her away (I sent her a copy,) but she hasn't contacted anyone else in the family since that first contact, either, so I don't think it was my story (again, no names were mentioned.) The story of my life has many characters. I can't omit them; I usually under report their bad actions. That's the best I can do.