Having recently turned 70, I can relate to a lot of what you wrote. Comfort tops everything. I'm sorry for the loss of your wife; I gained a husband not quite 2 years ago and am sharing a bed for the first time in quite a while. I don't feel 70, but then, I've never been 70 before, so I don't know how I'm supposed to feel, although there's not much difference now than there was at 60. So far.